DEV 13FN Healthy Family (Parent-Child)/ro

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=Sesiunea 13: Familie sănătoasă (părinte – copil)=

''În această sesiune vei descoperi ce anume spune Cuvântul lui Dumnezeu despre relații sănătoase între părinți și copii. ''

Inima unui conducător (40 min)

 * Închinați-vă împreună, în grupul mare
 * Participanții se despart în grupuri de 3-4 persoane și discută următoarele:
 * Ce înveți despre cum să rămâi în Cristos prin intermediul Cuvântului, rugăciunii, ascultării, R-G-Î, relații și părtășie?
 * În ce domenii ale vieții tale ascultarea de Dumnezeu este o provocare?
 * Ce conflict nerezolvat ai?
 * Ce s-a întâmplat când I-ai încredintat lui Dumnezeu scopurile tale după ultima noastră întâlnire?

Exprimarea viziunii pentru inimă
Citiți Ioan 15:1-5,8. 'O vie avea un scop pe vremea lui Isus, anume aceea de a produce struguri pentru vin. Ea nu era folosită aproape deloc în scop ornamental. Frunzele drăguțe și bogate, oricât de frumoase ar fi fost, nu aveau nicio valoare și nu își împlineau scopul. Isus vorbea despre El ca fiind adevărata Viță a lui Dumnezeu, iar cei ce Îl urmau erau mlădițele Lui. El va produce fructul, iar aceia care sunt legați la El va fi o mlădiță care va rodi. Mlădițele nu pot da naștere la fruct, doar vița poate face asta. Frânge o mlădiță a viței și ea se usucă și moare fără rod. Vița este singurul izvor al vieții și produce roade pe mlădițele sănătoase. Grădinarul hrănește vița și ajută mlădițele sănătoase care rodesc să devină și mai roditoare. Pentru a trece de la „roade” la „mai multe roade” este nevoie de curățare a viței - îndepărtarea lucrurilor bune care distrag atenția de la țelul principal, acela de a duce roade. Atunci când experimentezi durerea și pierderea în viața ta, bucură-te. Cooperează cu Grădinarul cât rămâi în Isus, Vița, știind că scopul Lui este acela de a trece de la „a rodi” la „mai multe fructe” și „la mai multe fructe” (Ioan 15:2) pentru slava Sa arătând că ești ucenicul lui Isus (Ioan 15:8). Trăiește zilnic predat lui Isus pentru că despărțit de El nu vei fi rodnic.'

Celebrarea credincioșiei (20 min)
[NOTE: Celebrate Faithfulness in the large group so that all can benefit and be encouraged.]


 * Give opportunity for participants to share what has happened since the last meeting. Ask them to relate it to goals from the last meeting.

Iron on Iron: Sharpening Myself and Others (45 min)
Proverbs 27:17 “As iron sharpens iron, one man sharpens another.” 


 * Have everyone return to their Iron on Iron small groups, draw their network of missional communities and churches then share and evaluate with their group.
 * What is going well?
 * What is not going well? What obstacles are you facing?
 * What are possible solutions from the other group members?
 * What do you need to do to add the missing characteristics into each group?
 * Where will you start a new group or church this month?
 * Have everyone set goals for improvement from their evaluation and share their goals with their small group. Then have them pray for one another.

New Lesson (45-60 min)
Relevant Topic: Why is it important to understand healthy relationships between parents and children?


 * Have participants get into new groups of 4-5 people (or they can continue in their Iron on Iron groups)
 * In the following sections, each group assign verses to each participant. Each participant will then read the passages below and tell what they learned to the group.

Discovery Bible Study –Parents and Children

Review: Read Ephesians 5:21 as a foundation for the biblical principle of submission... Submission is God’s plan for all believers.

Section 1: Roles and Expectations

Roles of Parents and Children: Ephesians 6:1-4; Exodus 20:12

Parents need to Teach: Deuteronomy 6:6-9; Proverbs 22:6

Children need to Listen: Proverbs 1:8-9

Role of Scripture: 2 Timothy 3:14-16


 * After they have all shared their assigned verses, have each person in the groups share:
 * What caught your attention? (or What did you like best?) Why?
 * What are the responsibilities of children to their parents?
 * What are the responsibilities of parents to their children?

'Summary: A child must obey parents, except in cases where parents’ expectations conflict with biblical commands. Examples might include where Jesus remained in the temple once his parents had departed for home (Lk. 2:39-52), or where Jesus remained with his disciples rather than answering his mother’s call for him (Mk. 4:31-35). Jesus himself taught that obedience to His word could cause division within families (Mt. 10:34-39).'

Section 2: Discipling our Children Need for Balance: Colossians 3:20-21

Help from other Believers: Titus 2:2-8

Purpose of Discipline: Hebrews 12:7-11

God’s Example: Lamentations 3:22-23


 * After they have all shared their assigned verses, have each person in the groups share:
 * What caught your attention? (or What did you like best?) Why?
 * How do parents avoid provoking their children according?
 * How does our heavenly Father serve as an example for us in this matter?

'Summary: If problems already exist that are disturbing a families’ harmony, the path to healing begins with confession of sin to God (1 John 1:9) and to the one we’ve wronged (James 5:16a) resulting in forgiveness and restoration of broken relationships. Children are responsible to submit to their parents, except when asked to violate God’s revealed word. In those situations, children are expected to obey the Bible. Even in those situations, children must treat their parents with respect. Parents must raise their children in the discipline and encouragement of the Lord, and not provoke them. When tempted to respond inappropriately to children or parents, we need to submit our hearts to God and resist. Remember, church leaders should be growing in how they manage their families and raise their children (Titus 1:5-9, 1 Timothy 3:1-7)'

Prepare for Mission (20 mins)

 * In small groups, have each trainee Evaluate how their lives are in the area Parent/Child submission and have them Make a Plan on how they will immediately begin to improve.
 * Discuss practical applications:
 * What are good ways to discipline children without causing them to lose heart?
 * How can we balance discipline with encouragement to accomplish this purpose?
 * What can we do to solve the problems we face as parents in accordance with these passages?
 * Write “I will by when” statements. Include “Who will you teach this lesson to?”
 * Practice any additional skill that the leaders need in leading their groups or starting new ones

Sending the Laborers

 * Reinforce the overall vision: a church or faith community for every 1,000 people
 * Spend time in prayer:
 * committing everyone’s goals to the Lord.
 * for God to raise up a movement of churches.
 * for more laborers to come out of the harvest.